LISTEN UP, YOUNG LADY ALIAS MARRIED WOMAN!- AN OPINION BY MONICA IHUAKU MADUMEHE.


  The fact that you married at 21 years of age, or that you are married today doesn’t mean that you are better, happier, or more privileged than that your Friend, Cousin, Sister, class mates, acquaintance, far or distant relations who is 35 and above and still single!!!! 

  Marriage is not a Happy certificate nor an Insurance investment that you will remain on top forever!!! STOP THAT NONSENSE!!! Stop looking at those who are not married yet at 35 and above as though they are cursed or are leprous ….They are not less privileged either…they are even more privileged than millions of married but living single women around the world…..

  Many of our matured singles are happier, more comfortable and far better than you in that your so called husband’s house….. Throw that marital pride away because nothing lastsforever…YES! ! you are married and we have all seen your husband, that makes them more privileged because you don’t know and pride will even blind you not to see who GOD is preparing for them to marry even at that age…it just might be you or your husband’s Boss, might be the Governor of your state, A Minister, The Judge that will handle your husband’s rape case in future, Might be that Custom Boss who could bail your goods worth billions in future, or that your benefactor….hmmmmmmmm No one knows tomorrow oooooo!!! Be wise and treat the matured singles with the respect they deserve….And matured singles please stop or don’t wag your tail, do not be too desperate as to ruin another woman’s marriage because you want a husband at all cost, even if it means putting asunder what GOD has joined together and WARNED NO ONE TO PUT ASUNDER!!! your future with that man you snatched may be more rotten that the one you snatched him from…He told you he is not happy in the arms of the woman he married, what makes you think he will find that happiness in your own arms after 3years?????? I laugh you in Latin….My dear single ladies or matured singles you can never know a man or concludes that he is loving because he buys you iPad, BB, Brazilian hair, Pizza, Ice-cream, designer wears, Jeep or Isiewu…. Until you marry a man then sleep and wake up with him and his flaws for years you will be dangling your tail for him….if it is money that pushed you there, bet you me, you will even hate both his money and him, take to your heels or die silently when you know the real him without that suits and well sewed Ankara…Only then, you will hail your fellow woman who you snatched him from…… 

  And one secret desperation won’t let you see or know is that any man who leaves his wife for you will leave you for your house help, and any man who buys you Jeep when the wife uses Oke Bekkee is not doing it because you re better than his wife, he may paint that picture but the real fact is that he is probably giving you the love showered on a fowl that will be slaughtered on Christmas day….hmmm… he just might be preparing you for that ritual sacrifice to make more money for his loving wife and children….or he just might spiritually be taking things worth much more than the price of that Jeep he bought you from your body…. and you will never know because Greed, desperation, and fornication has blinded you so much…..Okwa Agbasia Egwu onaa na ukwu!!! Onye chukwu na azo na azokwa onwe ya bikonu umu agbogho!!! No wonder the Bible said that Wisdom is profitable and we should be as wise as serpent yet as humble as dove…It means we should pray for spiritual eyes….So do not be too desperate…. Just be Prayerful, decent and look up to GOD cos as long as GOD is the wisest we can never tell the future very certain…Your Babalawo, prophet or pastor may predict but they can never be accurate!!!! The GOD who molded you in your mother’s womb will give you that 100 percent single man or a long widower that you NEED, may not be the man you WANT though…but he sure will be the man you really NEED for a happy life, the man that lives for you and see another woman as a taboo….! Don’t let the devil cajole you into laughing off this message cos Many years From Now you would say that GOD used Princess Jewel Andy Asare to say this to you but you never heeded…

  I have delivered the message!!! Thank YOU DADDY JESUS, SIR!!! Outstanding evening to you all!!

 

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About Egoyibo Okoro

Beautiful. Friendly. Opinionated. Feminist. Scholarly. Apolitical. Christian. Sometimes, I write in Engli-Igbo and/or pidgin English. Just so you know, I am naturally disgruntled about a lot of things, most especially gender inequality, human rights abuses, racism and corruption. #EndChildMarriage. #EndTerrorism. #EndPoverty. #EndRacism. #EndImperialism. The Igbo say, "egbe bere, ugo bere, nke si ibe ya ebena nku kwa ya" - Live and let live!
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